The month of sick...

That's what August 2010 was in this household.

First of all we had the flu, I think it attacked all four of us and left the place overrun with damp, used tissues and the awful, sickly, sticky pink residue of Panadol. Tough, but familiar territory for me - 2009 was Oti's first year at Occy's Place and he was sick for the majority of it, usually with flu-like symptoms. Whenever the kids are sick they sleep with us - Phil jumps in with O, easier now that he is in full-length bunk beds (an awesome IKEA purchase), and Peggy comes in with me very early on in the night. All rules fly out the window, I let them eat as much as they like (usually very little) and whatever takes their fancy (ice cream for lunch? Why not!?), and there's plenty of DVD viewing and snuggling on the couch.

Next was the bad, awful, worst, scariest virus of all... GASTRO. Second time we've been hit this year, and AGAIN, I prove to be Superwoman, avoiding it completely even though it hung around here for over a week. As luck would have it, Peggy suddenly began vomiting - not the harmless little baby possets, the big, chunky, explosive, stinky type - literally as we headed out the door to visit a friend here for only a few days from Sweden. That outing was cancelled. Peggy ate nothing and drank frequently from the breast, and had about 5 vomiting episodes over the course of two days. She was in good spirits though, and it was an interesting lesson in early childhood development to compare her to Otis, who developed the same dreaded sickness afew days later, at the same moment Phil did. Otis was beside himself with anxiety and fear (as was I - I cried - it all happened at midnight, Peggy woke up too, and I froze - what to do? Who to attend to first? How to rid us all of the smell of spew?). He was most freaked out by the sight of his first gigantic throw-up - he woke up lying amongst the remnants of that evening's dinner, his dummy perched on top of the stinky mass, and he screamed when he returned to his room with the lights on and saw the hideous mess his bed was in. He then threw up all over himself and the floor, and howled as he moved him into the shower.

Months previously, he'd had the same thing in almost the same circumstances, and he hadn't been at all bothered. A new awareness, a developing sense of cleanliness and shame... It was interesting to behold.

Phil threw up too, they took turns in fact, and the poor little boy sat naked on the couch wrapped in old towels watching some bizarre Japanese anime movie through the night, until we were convinced the worst was over and allowed him to get dressed again. He and Phil finally fell asleep in the living room and spent the following day eating chips and drinking lemonade and looking as sad as can be.

My iron-clad stomach stood strong through it all, but being the one washing the vomit-stained sheets and comforting the sickly souls is not always preferable... Tired doesn't cover it.

Through the gastro the greeen snotty noses continued, then started to fade to a less-disgusting shade of yellow, and then the next sickness hit - the unspecified virus that has resulted in fevers, lethargy and super-duper-clingy behaviour. First Peggy, then Oti. I hate wasting an hour of my life in the GP's waiting room with a child who has nothing worse than a virus and thus cannot be treated in any way for it. It's not that I wanted them to be seriously ill, trust me. I just wish I'd factored a medical degree into my repertoire of study so that I could avoid such pointless and painful visits to the Dr. I hate being made to feel like a hypochondriac, but how I am to know that it's an untreatable, commonplace bug?

There are some nice parts to the whole sick child scenario... The cuddles are a little longer, you can sleep with them all night guilt-free, they need you and love you that little bit more, they sleep longer during the day (Tuesday - Otis did 4 hours, Peggy did 1 and then 2 1/2) and the joy you feel when they are back to their happy, energised little selves is really special, a real moment of gratitude.